After my 15 week private gender scan it’s a boy 💙
Is it wrong to feel disappointed, I wanted one of each and 90% of everyone’s guesses were girls..everyone was shocked 🫣 I’m happy and glad baby is healthy but I just can’t help feel upset! My little man really wanted a little sister so it’s sad seeing him a little upset also x
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Absolutely not
This is boy no. 3 for me, first pregnancy I genuinely was not bothered, with my second i basically spent the entire pregnancy feeling like “what if it is actually a girl” and now finding out this time i have cried many times
I always wanted a little girl but i know from experience with my second that when i give birth it will just be my baby, wont matter what the gender is
Literally After spending the entire pregnancy thinking it could possibly be a girl, they handed him to me and the thought didnt even cross my mind to check to see if i was right or not 😂😂
Some people dont get it and may try to say youre ungrateful, as if you dont love your child just because you had an expectation or hope of what you would have.
But it’s completely normal many women experience it. Dont let anyone shame you for something you have no control over feeling. You will still love your child the same and it doesnt make you a bad mum.
Try to enjoy your pregnancy as much as you can and let yourself feel how youre feeling
Wishing you all the best
No ive had 3 girls hoping this one.is a boy but to be honest doesn't matter as long as its healthy
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