How to spice it up
For a long time my On wasn’t prioritized. Now it is more but with the length of neglect, sometimes I’m not into it. Felt very one sided. How do I shift this mindset? I also get in my head that I take long to reach it unlike my husband. I recognize we’re so different (oven vs stovetop burner). Do you stay in your head? How long do you take to reach climax roughly? I have nobody compare to, so I can be in my head. It may not be long, it may feel long to me.
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It’s one of those things that you just have to look within and see if you can get over it. Women are different when it comes to sex. For us it’s mental, physical, and emotional. For some men it’s just physical and for some also emotional. For me with a previous partner when my needs weren’t being met physically and non physically I just couldn’t finish and didn’t want to do the deed anymore with them. I was perfectly fine going months and months without it. If it got to a point for you it’s all you can think about then I’d suggest having a conversation with your partner and telling them how you felt then and currently. Because if it wasn’t fully resolved to you then it’s going to continue to linger and you’ll never get past it.
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