Struggling to get pregnant again

Hiya! I am first time mom who got easily pregnant the first go! We are struggling to get pregnant again. Our little one is 9 months and we have been trying for a few months because my dream is 2 under 2!

Is anyone else in the middle of this phase?

in our community

Question to everyone but specifically for people with darker skin tones. How would you like parents to talk to their kids if the child mentioned your skin color?

Not in any sort of bad way. But like I have two toddlers the younger one is learning colors. We had a pest control guy come and he had a black truck he is also a black guy so my daughter recognized it but that’s it. I’d like to know how you guys would appreciate me talk to her about it or acknowledging that yes he is a different color but to one day not be rude about it. Something like that. Please let me know if this doesn’t make sense. It wasn’t the first time she’s seen a person of color but because she was talking about the truck that’s why it was brought up. So now do I just go yeah he is black isn’t that cool? Or what do you think?

Test reassurance please

Found out last week I was pregnant. As I was 3 weeks I first had a VFL then an obvious positive on a clear blue. Took a couple more tests on Sunday but they weren’t any darker. This is the test I took this morning at 4 weeks and a day after my period was due. The 2nd line is even fainter than the ones I did on the weekend. It is a different brand which Chat GPT said can be like this. This is my 2nd pregnancy and I found out with my 1st at 4 weeks the day I was due on and had very dark lines. So I’m really worried that these don’t seem to be getting any darker. I’ll keep on testing every other day but not sure what I do if it still isn’t darkening?

Confused

Right… I’m so confused. My period is due today, and for the past week I had a slight feeling that I might be pregnant. Terrified as we have a one year old - we weren’t trying. Anyway, most of my symptoms were indicating pregnancy, so I took test on Saturday ( can see faint line - shocked as this is what I had with my first daughter), Sunday different test showing negative, Monday - test showed a faint line within the time frame then it disappeared, took another test this morning and is negative. I’m slightly relieved, but confused and also a bit sad after yesterday’s test. What the hell was that?

I wanted to post more photos. The one I’m attaching is the first test.

Im an idiot and somebody needs to stop me please

Ladies, I’m 4 days past ovulation and like a fool I’ve been testing already. Of course there’s no line and it made me sad. I’ve definitely had the eye lines too pretending to myself that there’s something there. But really I’ve just made myself cross eyed.

I have a little girl already and I did the same crazy behaviour of testing way too early and then getting upset. I need to stop this crazy behaviour. I forgot how hard the TWW is.