Do you trust your intuition

I’ve known this man for about 7 years but now for the past 6 months we’ve moved to a relationship. He has my location, passwords and expects spicy stuff. I’m feel stupid for giving in but I have. I’ve requested to follow his insta but no response yet he can follow 3 of my mutuals. I don’t know I have this gut feeling like he’s going behind my back. I want to ask ask one of those mutuals if he’s talking them as while but I’m not sure if I’m just overreacting or just bring it up to him. I don’t really have anyone to talk to about this.

in our community

Just wanted to let this out!

I’m just fed up with him. .im happy with my baby but not in my relationship. This really sucks.
Trying so hard to make it work 🤦🏽‍♀️
I gotta stop.

co parenting struggles.

Co-parenting is so hard sometimes because why is my baby at the beach at 11 PM? 😣 It’s not something I would’ve been comfortable with, but since it’s his dad’s weekend, I don’t get much say. The hardest part isn’t the lack of control, it’s not being there to watch over him and keep him safe. I pray that our Lord please keeps my baby extra protected tonight and every time I’m not around. 😢🙏🧎‍♀️‍➡️

Rant

My husbands sister came down with her 2 sons (9,7 years old) without letting me know. Her kids don’t listen and always being naughty but she doesn’t tell them off. They hardly come to my house but they only came because they had something important to do near my house which they normally do every Sunday but they came today unexpectedly. Whenever her kids come down they eat all the ice creams and snacks and make my toddler cry as I don’t like my LO to have too much sugar or ice cream. I’m not a b*tch or anything but whenever they come they waste food and drink and finish everything and she doesn’t say anything. They always leave my house in a pigsty and I am half way through my pregnancy it is hard as it is with a toddler doing pregnancy especially as my husband was at work all day as he has a long shift so I have been solo parenting a lot. My LO pretty much keeps to herself and plays or she’ll watch something if she gets bored of playing. Today they came and eldest some tried breaking her new toy even tho I’m repeated telling him not to in front of him mum. I really don’t mind them coming but they don’t do those sort of stuff in their own house so why in other people’s house and their mum rarely ever discipline them. It is now 1:45am and I am left cleaning up after a long day.

Weaning on the go

Hi we’re going to Edinburgh next month our daughter will be 9 months old.
We’re staying in a travelodge and I haven’t got a clue what I’m going to feed her or how. Cause we won’t have a highchair or microwave etc and we’ll be out and about all the time. We’re doing blw but how do I think of three meals a day what to do her.
IDEAS PLEASE!!

Also tips on how I can sterilise bottles as we have mam and normally microwave. I don’t know how I feel about using Milton either cause it seems faffy so if there’s any other ways let me know ! Thank you x

Anyone else getting tired of Colorado?

I couldn't even go shopping with some lady trying to hit me and trying to take my child. This lady was part of a bigger group and they were also stealing stuff. There was only one cashier and he didn't know what to do. There's no security at that store anymore which sucks.

Venting about all the snacks!!!

My husband goes to bed around 2, me at 12 or 1am. He gets up with our kids as early as 6am if they’re up and hungry and he’ll give them something quick like snacks, bar, pouch, pirates booty. Usually he’ll doze off on the couch or he’ll just be up for the day with them at 6! Sometimes they’ll ask for several snacks before I wake up at 7-7:30 so when I come down to make breakfast they’re full on snacks! I feel like a B*** complaining about my husband feeding the kids, at least they’re fed? But I wish he’d put the same effort I put in. I’m talking like, toast a piece of bread or a waffle. Boil water in the kettle and pour it over some oats. Heck even rinse some berries and put it on yogurt.
He says if I want to be uptight about what they eat, I should wake up early and realize he gets less sleep. I go to bed late because that’s my only me time. Our kids are in bed at 9