A quick question to you all, did you feel ready to have another baby? Months ago I was a no to having another one, but the more I look back at baby videos of my daughter, I feel like I’d love to relive that stage (mentally prepared this time lol!)
Mums who have 2 children or expecting, what’s it like? Is it hard? The one thing that is stopping me is that I don’t want my daughter to feel ‘left out’ (which would never happen).
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My Jan baby is my second. I got pregnant when my daughter was 19 months so they have a 2year 4 months age gap.
I feel the jump from 0-1 vs 1-2 is more of an adjustment because when the second comes you’re already a mum and have adjusted your lifestyle.
They’re the best of friends and obsessed with each other and the best gift we could of given to each other ❤️

Pregnancy with a toddler running around is challenging 😅 but you get through it.
We were lucky that my daughter was fully potty trained, had dropped naps, sleeping well and had a lot of independence by the time our Jan baby was here so I think this made it less challenging too. For example we taught her to climb in the car seat, could go up and down stairs, get involved with passing nappies etc so didn’t feel left out