Our neighbour has a weird fixation with our family. Has anyone dealt with similar?

The inability of our 4 & 2 year old to control their emotions enrages him and he makes it his business. Mind you this started when they were 3 & 1.

• He bangs on our shared wall when our two-year-old cries, most often during the night but sometimes during the day as well. This started when she was 1yo.

• He also does this when the children are playing and laughing in the evening.

• He mocks the sound of our children crying through our shared wall.

• While in the garden, he will loudly discuss with his partner what our children are doing, particularly when they are upset, making it clear that he is watching and/or listening and commenting on them.

He’s just an oddball and I don’t know what kind of oddball he is. The police and council do not care at all. But considering we live in a neighbourhood nestled between two primary schools, I have concerns about the others kids on our road who may come across him.

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Sounds like a first class prick who has nothing better to do.

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he sounds like a right fkn weirdo

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That’s really creepy.

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