Wedding advice - to go or not to go?

Hi all, it’s one of my best friends wedding tomorrow. I’m a bridesmaid. I’m pregnant. This pregnancy has been difficult from the start. The past few weeks I’ve been getting short of breath, my pulse has been raised multiple times getting to 140. I’ve kept her updated. But was always still going to the wedding. I’ve ended up going for a scan and my heart rate still being high was sent a&e and they did a scan which they believe they scan see blood clots but want me to come back Tuesday. The wedding is tomorrow and 2 and a half hours away. I just don’t know what to do. I feel awful if I would miss it but I’m also anxious being 36 weeks pregnant.

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Bless you! Did they give you any advice about travelling or they wedding? Is there a maternity hospital near the wedding? Do you have a hotel room to be able to rest? I would be basing it off those things

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