I waited to have a baby because I’ve always wanted who ever I got pregnant by to love me unconditionally or at the very least respect me … & sometimes it seriously breaks my heart that that’s not how things turned out , I have hope that one day he & I can get to some type of common ground but only time will tell atp. Just came here to vent 🥹😮💨.
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I am sorry that things didn’t go as you planned, but I can tell you that there is no other love in the world like a baby loving their mama. And I know it’s not the answer you want. I hope that everything works out for you in the end!

I had this dream a couple months ago where everything kept going way off plan and I was stressing and then it all kept turning out way better than originally planned and I think it symbolized exactly this. Im going through something similar and just have to say sometimes things turn out different than we planned but thats usually because its better that way in the end. Im a firm believer in everything happening for a reason. While it seems shitty now its probably for the best in the end. 🩷

The biggest thing is your are showing your baby you are choosing happiness and peace over any negativity and that its ok to not settle. Something that is slowly growing in this world, where women and men for that matter are finding peace more important than a horrible depressing relationship to "do it for the kids" hang in there, God has a plan for you guaranteed