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I waited to have a baby because I’ve always wanted who ever I got pregnant by to love me unconditionally or at the very least respect me … & sometimes it seriously breaks my heart that that’s not how things turned out , I have hope that one day he & I can get to some type of common ground but only time will tell atp. Just came here to vent 🥹😮‍💨.

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I am sorry that things didn’t go as you planned, but I can tell you that there is no other love in the world like a baby loving their mama. And I know it’s not the answer you want. I hope that everything works out for you in the end!

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I had this dream a couple months ago where everything kept going way off plan and I was stressing and then it all kept turning out way better than originally planned and I think it symbolized exactly this. Im going through something similar and just have to say sometimes things turn out different than we planned but thats usually because its better that way in the end. Im a firm believer in everything happening for a reason. While it seems shitty now its probably for the best in the end. 🩷

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The biggest thing is your are showing your baby you are choosing happiness and peace over any negativity and that its ok to not settle. Something that is slowly growing in this world, where women and men for that matter are finding peace more important than a horrible depressing relationship to "do it for the kids" hang in there, God has a plan for you guaranteed

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Can’t control my eating

FTM and 30 weeks pregnant. I cannot stop eating, I think about food all the time. I used to eat fairly healthy and only eat what I cook at home, take aways were very rare. The last few weeks I’m craving chocolate, ice cream, doughnuts etc. I just went to the shop and forgot all of my usual shop. I can home with 2 packs of ice creams, a giant bar of chocolate, crunchy doughnuts, pizza, burgers, full sugar ginger beer, sausage rolls. What is wrong with me?
I started hiding chocolates in my room out of fear of judgement from my partner.
I want to be able to lose the weight after and worried I won’t. I have an auto immune disease so already suffer with fatigue and on bad days worsened mobility.
Anyone else had a similar experience? Any advice?

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A little sad

I waited to have a baby because I’ve always wanted who ever I got pregnant by to love me unconditionally or at the very least respect me … & sometimes it seriously breaks my heart that that’s not how things turned out , I have hope that one day he & I can get to some type of common ground but only time will tell atp. Just came here to vent 🥹😮‍💨.

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Due The End Of August

Any other mommas out there procrastinating? I’ve been seeing so many mommas due in August have their babies in July! Any words of wisdom? lol. I literally don’t have any set up for myself or for baby arrival ! THIS MOMMA NEEDS HELP!

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For C-section mamas, did your second baby arrive early?

Everyone always says the second baby arrives earlier than the first, but what about c section mums who had a c section with their first?

With my first I had a c section at 39 weeks before labour started.

I'm curious to hear from others if your waters broke/labour started earlier than expected with your second?

Am now 31 weeks pregnant with my second and wondering if baby is likely to wait until the 39th week as I technically haven't been through labour before! X

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OMFG YAYYYYYY!!!!

OMFG IM SO HAPPY IM GETTING WHAT THEY CALL A BIONIC PANCREAS!!!!! I HAVE BEEN TRYING TO GET THIS DAMN INSULIN PUMP FOR THE LAST LIKE 2 MONTHS BUT MY INSURANCE WAS BEING STINKY. BUT THEY APPROVED IT!!!!! YAY!!! OMFG IM GONNA CRY HAPPY TEARS!!!

lol yes I meant to scream all of that. Im so f$%@ing excited!!!!

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Any August mamas given birth yet?

I’m due Aug 19 and just have a strong intuition feeling that baby’s coming a lot sooner, what are the signs leading up? This will be my third baby

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