Trying not to be a bitter bm

Get away from him asap

You should be going out too if heblives there.

I used to live with my ex when we broke up, it was hell. It was hard to move out because he controlled the finances and made sure I didn’t get enough of the money to save to leave. Eventually I hid enough money to move. My suggestion is try to move as soon as you can. In the mean time is while he’s out as much as you can, make some me time at home. Do your nails, take a long “me” shower, have an at home spa day, make some crafts. You’re never not going to be jealous or feel some type of way about him going out, instead do your own thing and focus on that.

Sorry, why does he get to go out every weekend? He may not be your boyfriend/partner anymore but he’s still a father and should be present and working with you to raise this child. If you’re doing all the heavy lifting what is he doing? My advice, regardless, is get out of this situation ASAP.

Red flag girlie 🚩 always read your loved one signs on how they love and understand that you need time and space too.

Make time for yourself and worry about your baby.💯 If he can't be present to be a father, there's no need for you or him to even be there. 🤷🏾 you don't deserve that and can do so much better.

Are they really his friends or “friends” because that could def be where your emotion is coming from