Had to share this TikTok!

Hey uh.
This is a hateful, judgmental, materialistic woman who's openly proud of the descriptor "selfish" and thinks hair and nail care and marrying for money is what makes a woman. That's not conjecture, either. It's what she says about herself and the values she'd like other women to have.

Now, do I think the woman she stitched who thinks her husband dying is not a possibility she should entertain, is super wise? No. Do I think moving to Austin hoping to buy a home in the suburbs is very financially smart? No, I'd never do that. As a former Austinite, she should go to Missouri or her husband should enlist for a VA loan or something. But condemning her relationship to online cheating because she won't be desirable anymore? This lady is basically blaming this woman for the possibility of her husband lusting after other ladies.. because she has roots in her hair. 50% of women up to age 30 are childless. A lot of women give up their babies weeks to months of having them, to daycare or family members.

Sahm don't have to choose between letting the state raise their baby and a set of acrylic nails or staying home and thrifting a dress. Many of them adopt a level of character and class well beyond what this self-identified selfish woman is capable of, you just don't see them online showing their ass about it like the lady she stitched. Not to mention, life insurance, divorce money, savings, Facebook Marketplace, friends and family, Christ, and choosing a good man. The poster seems to think poor people have no say in the world and that poor blue collar men shouldn't be loved or providers. I don't understand how she gets away with espousing judgmental random nonsense about a depressed lady who clearly needs friends and happens to also be a sahm.

Who knows, maybe she is trapped, but she could also probably get a job if she needs a new shirt. Especially in Austin. That place is a powerful hub of service job.

Anyway, I'm not aiming this at you for sharing it. I had no idea what I was gonna open and listened to this a few times in a row hoping to find common ground with this woman, but she seems of low character and compassion. I do think if this is your algorithm, like you see stuff this lady says or women like this lady on your feed a lot, it's a cooked feed.