2nd Baby

We’re debating on having another. Any tips, suggestions, etc. I’m also open to any negative feedback on having a second child, TIA!

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I have a Sept 22’ baby and a Feb 26’ baby and I love it so much ! Honestly I thought I wanted a small age gap but I love seeing oldest be a big brother . For me it feels like it wasn’t hard to add in the baby bottles and diaper changes into the routine.

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