Do you judge someone based on how many kids they have?

I put yes judging. I don't necessarily judge every person with 5+ kids but I do if they are struggling/not managing then continue adding more kids. More cos I feel sorry for the kids.

Don't judge people for no kids or one and done.

Im one and done myself and have def gotten shit for that decision. I wouldnt personally enjoy having a large amount of kids so sometimes its hard for me to understand the desire. But the only time I would judge and have judged is if they diddnt have the resources to care for more children, plan on using older siblings to raise the younger siblings, or the justification is that they want someone to love them unconditionally and they just get pregnant again as soon as their child can express their own personality and opinions

(I knew someone who openly admitted this was her plan when she did decide to have to have kids. She also anticipated using her violent and mentally and psychologically abusive mother to provide childcare until the older ones can raise the younger ones)