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(Yes I know everyone’s body is different)
I don’t want to gain a bunch of weight though
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I would look into an IUD

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Both of those options are hormonal. I would look into the copper IUD if you didn’t want the potential weight gain. I lost weight easily after all my 3 babies, back to pre pregnancy weight by a year Pp, but I track and we use condoms on my fertile days I wasn’t and I’m still not, on any BC. I’m also not willing to risk any weight gain when I worked so hard to lose 44lbs 3rd baby. Birth control is probably one of the reasons why many struggle to get back to old weight.

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I’m 195 right now and I breast feed as well so my appetite is already as if I’m still pregnant

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Do y'all think my husband is cheating on me? He just doesn't initiate sex. Even for us to have a baby he had to take viagra and following that is when we conceived. But I'm just concerned he doesn't initiate sex it's always me.

Between work and caring for our baby he wouldn't realistically have time to cheat but you never know but I just find it weird he doesn't initiate. However we are in marriage counselling and our counselor told us that he is malnourished. He barely eats and sleeps and doesn't look after himself so of course you ain't gonna have energy for sex.

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Pregnancy if sex happens 6 weeks after birth

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Is it possible I get pregnant if I and my partner have sex 6 weeks post partum…not sex per se….more like just rubbing on each other as I didn’t want penetration but he had c*m on the face of my v** and now I’m scared I might get pregnant again which is too early .

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Is it cheating?

Is it considered cheating if i find out my partner has been sending snapchat messages to random girls.. messages like “hey hon, wht you upto?” Etc..
Also see the pic below. Is that considered cheating?

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I’m looking to make genuine friends , that’s talks daily , meet up, video call. Friends that can become best friends. Shopping trips etc 💕

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Feeling defeated.

A couple months ago I had to quit my job to stay home with my 2 kids. We tried to apply for financial day care assistance before this and were completely denied. Now I applied for food benefits since we are down to one income. Still waiting on that. Not very much income and very little savings. Maybe 2 months rent before we are drained. I've been looking for a a job that could do when my husband is home or when a parent can watch , basically Sat-Mon but I can't find anything. It's been almost 2 months and haven't gotten close to anything that works. I thought about door dash but not sure it's even worth it considering the gas and wear and tear on my car and can't afford full coverage on insurance on it anymore. Thinking about starting a business but just in the beginning stage and have to apply for a loan.. it will take weeks or months to get started.. and there are personal circumstances that are making this even more stressful than it already is.. I'm hanging by a thread.. if you have any good suggestions of what I could do I'm all ears! For reference I am in Western Washington.

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It’s sooo weird joining an app to make friends in my late 30’s. Anyone else having trouble trying to connect 😒

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