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Venting (judge free)

I need help .

So I’ve been seeing this guy for almost 2 years now off and on and he CONSTANTLY coddles his ex wife/childs mother everytime she texts him he tilts the phone. He does have a history of lying to me bad . But I can’t prove that he’s left me for her in the past I have proof of him confessing his feelings to her while I was with him on new years . And he constantly denies that he said that and I have a video of them in bed and he’s saying it’s from a while ago . but I don’t even talk to my child’s father as much as he talks to his child’s mother. Just something has been feeling off lately and we’re supposed to move hundreds of miles away soon and I just wanna make sure that I’m doing the right thing by going with him. I’m just not sure if he’s ready to detach from her or if he still has feelings for her and doesn’t want to tell me … I just need some grounded minds to help me understand and figure out what to do .