One and done

Hi! I’m 26 y/o and I’m 35 weeks and due in August! I have been anxious throughout this pregnancy and now I’m diagnosed with GAD. I have been wondering if I won’t be able to do this whole pregnancy thing again with a toddler running around. I feel like that’s it. I want to do one and done, also, because of financial reasons as well. In my head, it just doesn’t seem feasible, mentally and financially, that I’d like to have more babies.

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That's totally valid and plenty of people are one and done for any host of reasons. Your body, your choice. Don't feel pressured by society 🙂

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One is absolutely fine! I always wanted 2 but given my age and finances we have decided to have one. Just means you can give more to that child 🥰 ps. Also 35 weeks!

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