Should I feel guilty for wanting to just lay in bed all day at 31 weeks my belly is heavy and my hips kill me but people in my ear tell me how I need to be active or my labor will be hard. I'm just so drained tired and wanting my baby here already 😩
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Noo it’s okay, just try to get a little exercise if you can small walks or if you can’t do some stretches in the house

Girl, they’re not the ones having this baby! F them! 🤭 all I do is sleep when I can because same! I’m almost 35 weeks and I know I need to do certain things to prep for it but atp I can’t even brush my teeth without needing to take a break so listen to your body. It’s working overtime to provide for both of you. Don’t feel guilty for needing rest.

Im 35 weeks today and i sleep like 12 hours a day lol I literally dont have the energy to deal with life right now. Don't feel bad, youre not alone 💙

If I could I 100% would sleep all day. Pregnancy is exhausting.

Hello! Almost 34 weeks here and I work from home at a desk type job. My laptop is permanently in bed with me all day every day while I work from my bed. My husband says I’m going to turn into one of those extremely obese people who cant get out of bed or move anymore and he is “worried” about me sitting too much. But I am sorry carrying this baby around is hard to do and I will make myself the most comfortable I can until he gets here. Meanwhile I have also lost a lot of weight this pregnancy compared to my daughter, where at the same point in weeks I am almost 20lbs less than I was with her. So logically makes no sense and is just a way to make me feel bad. Anyways, I have been active too but when I am feeling extra heavy and baby is being difficult, Im not leaving the dang bed. No one can tell me or make me feel bad otherwise. 🙄

Do it!!! You only get one first pregnancy. I didn't enjoy my first nearly enough and now i am 35 weeks pregnant chasing after a toddler. I will never get to have the pregnancy experience i got with my first again. If I needed to sleep I could. I didn't have to cook and clean, I could leave it alone and it would stay how I left it. Indulge, because if you have a second child you won't be able to next time 😅