Official outnumbered

Little one born early July. Now officially a boy mum of 2 beautiful boys!

We didn’t find out either pregnancy and we agreed before the second was born that this was last pregnancy

A) my health was so bad and ended up admitted and very high risk with this pregnancy so another would likely be worse - if not potentially not successful as a full term.

B) Financially and the spilt in our time and emotions - we couldn’t do another baby

We discussed at length and other half even checked if I was sure once baby boy was born. Which I am!

However, I need to rant and find a way to process that I’ll never have a little girl now. My own mini me and share those girlhood/woman experiences with.

I love my boys and both are a blessing considering we’d thought we’d never ever have children with 5 yrs of trying and being told no.

But how are we processing this if anyone has similar!

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