Surprise 2 under 2

Our first LO was a surprise as we thought we couldn’t conceive naturally and now an even bigger surprise - I’m pregnant again and my head is going crazy!! I feel super blessed and lucky that we’ve had two miracles (I know what so many women have to go through) but I’m so overwhelmed right now. My first is still waking multiple times a night and needing to come into our bed from around 3 am. I also can’t imagine not being able to give her all my attention when she’s still so little! But I also know that my babies will grow until so close and hopefully have an amazing relationship in the future. Are there any other 2 under 2 mums (or mums to be) out there who can offer some words of wisdom?

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Not 2 under 2 in my case but both our 1yo and 4yo still come into our bed at some point most nights. Two word of advice: superking bed 😁 x

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