Feeling judged

This is my first pregnancy after a long IVF journey and I am finding it really hard with all the negative comments about being a parent and having babies by people at work. I also have a heart condition so I am going to the hospital more and I feel the horrible comments about all of my appointments which are not wanted or asked for. I am now not talking about my pregnancy at work and want to sit somewhere else for the rest of my time at work as it's bringing me down. I already have so much anxiety about birth and the baby due to my heart I feel I am not enjoying my pregnancy at all. What would you do about the girls at work I am just becoming sick of hearing it.

in our community

Anyone else finding first trimester quite lonely?

I'm about 10 weeks now and from the outside theres no real visible change, but the mood swings and nausea are really getting to me. Its hard to share this with people when in general you are encouraged to keep it hush hush in the first trimester. Its so much change to navigate alone

Not a newborn anymore 😭

I’ve literally cried, probably, 7 times today because my baby girl is 8 weeks next week and not considered a newborn anymore. I can’t bear how fast time goes!

How are you all feeling mamas?

2 under 2 experience!?

i just found out i’m pregnant with my 9 month old what is everyone’s honest two under two experiences?? im nervous as heck tbh my 9 month old has still never slept though the night lol

4 months pp

Almost 4 months pp with my second and starting to feel sad and teary alot of the time. Anyone else? We havent had the 4 month regression yet and baby isnt particularly difficult so I dont know why I feel this. It sucks

Ready

Can we just give birth and meet our bundle of joys! Im sooo unconfortable im ready to face labour now🤣

DPF nightmare 🚗

I have a diesel car and a few months ago a warning light came on saying 'DPF inspection required'. I then got a warning that the oil pressure needs checking. It turned out that the DPF was clogged, re-generating too regularly and causing fuel to go into the oil.
I paid to get the DPF cleaned at a specialist garage, but within a few weeks both warning lights had come back on. The garage said that they would do a deeper, chemical clean of the DPF - which I paid for - only for the DPF light to come back on again within a week 😭

I do long journeys regularly and keep my fuel level high, but I'm now really unsure what to do. The garage have said that they could try to change the DPF pressure sensor but this would be over £200 and the costs are really stacking up.

I love the car other than this, its a Mazda CX5 and is the perfect size etc. We bought it from a private seller which I now know was probably a big mistake!

What would you do?