Spicing it up
Me and my partner rarely have sex since I’ve have the baby. He’s the one not too bothered about it whereas I feel like I’m constantly asking when can we have it. Baby is almost 7months and I think we’ve done it about 4 times within that….
I want to spice things up in the bedroom and keep it exciting but I don’t feel sexy anymore since having my baby.
Any tips on spicing it up/ feeling good about myself again..
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I know you don't want to hear this, but it starts when you focus on yourself for a while. Months just dieting working out, a good skincare regime time set aside for your favorite activity. Then, you get your confidence back in the right shape. Then, ask why he doesn't want to spend more quality intimacy time together and how you guys could make it spicy for your particular hidden fantasy or whatever turns up the heat in his and your oven. If he adverts everything with no interest, it's not a good sign, but take note. Something may be off.
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