4 year old has stopped sleeping
Just as our 1 year old has started sleeping.
A year of an average of 4-6 hours sleep a night I am losing grip on reality 🥲.
I'm finding it so hard to not flip out at my 4 year old when she wakes up.
We used to sit or lay with her, read to her, stroke her hair, if she woke in the night. Then one night she woke almost every hour, which went on for nearly a week. When we snapped she admitted she was doing it because she wanted us to stay with her.
Completely understandable for a four year old. Not something I can do as I need to sleep. She cant come in our bed either as we have tried, she just doesnt fall asleep for hours. Also cant do as we need sleep.
Now when she wakes we cant do the nice gentle things, as she will just keep waking and wanting them allll night. The only way is to just get in and get out as fast as possible.
Last night she got us up 5 times because she wanted her blanket put back on. I'd love tooo! But now I cant tonight as thats the next thing she is using.
Please help. I love her.
I am too tired to be nice to anyone. I want to be nice to her!! I want to solve it!! Everytime I am nice in the night she wakes up 5 times.
Baby is also teething.
I think a lor about getting hospitalised so I can rest 🥲