New relationship, new state…. Advice?

I moved here for my relationship after maybe a year of talking over the phone. And a month of knowing him in person. I got pregnant before I really got to decide if I wanted to stay. I’m super excited to be a mom, I’m just not sure I want to be one out here. Any advice? I’ve weighed every option and the benefits and struggles are too even to decide alone.

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Make the decision completely independent of your relationship. If it didn’t work out with him, would you still want to be living there?

Your situation is similar to mine, just a little different. I was in a long-distance relationship with my husband for a year. When I moved here, we got married, and four months later I got pregnant. We’ve had a lot of ups and downs, but now I have my son, and I do everything for him. Things have gotten better, and we have a good family now