Girl names: My list vs my husband's

So I posted this before... but now I have two additions and my husband's list (which is wild in my opinion)

We're having a girl! What do we think of this list?
I personally love these. I really like using Joan as an honour name because she is someone that meant a lot to me.

Here is my list. 🥰

Romy Joan H... 🌊
Tallulah Joan H... 🌊
Elara Joan H... ✨

Liora Joan H... ☀️
Nova Joan H... ⭐
Sage Joan H... 🌿
Lyra Joan H... 🌌
Indie Joan H... 🏄
Callie Joan H... 🌊
Zoe Joan H...⚡️
Nina Joan H...🎵

And my Husband added these as his list (had a WILD list imo- I am saying no to most!)

Adira Joan H...
Cleo Joan H...
Sienna Joan H...
Aster Joan H...
Rey Joan H...
Hera Joan H...
Sabine Joan H...
Padme (not even entertaining this but it is on his list 😂)
Freya Joan H...
Valentina Joan H...
Athena Joan H...

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Sex after c-section…

I’m 10 weeks pp and still haven’t had sex. My stomach is still super sensitive and I don’t feel sexy AT ALL, and just wondered if this is normal and when c-section mamas started being intimate again?

Help

I’m due in 5 days and today I have been in pain down below and keep getting sharp pains shooting down my privates and it’s like there’s pressure there and my lower back is also in pain, my waters haven’t broken. I don’t have an appointment until I’m 41 weeks, which is in 12 days. I’m starting to struggle to figure out if I need to wee or if it’s the pressure and pain. Has anyone else experienced this before? I can’t tell if they are contractions or something else.

He’s here 🩵

Born Monday at 2.06am. 38 weeks exactly

How did we all find bleeding? Did you get any clotting?

Is it rude to ask xtra adults to pay for entering play place for kids birthday party?

We’re planning my son’s 5th bday at an indoor play place and you only get free entry for adults accompanied by children. Additional adults are 10-15 dollars each which adds up quickly. We’re having a separate cake and presents thing outside of this for extended family (aunts, uncles, grandparents) that don’t have kids but some of these people want to come to the play place too. Would it be rude to ask them to pay the fee for them to come? I tried to explain that the kids just play the whole time so it won’t be like they would spend a lot of time with the birthday boy anyways. What do you think?

If birthdays were colors, what color would your birthday be?

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Labour?

40+4, had sudden contraction start about an hour ago, no signs beforehand other than pressure. They're painful and irregular, sometimes 2 minutes apart sometimes 5 minutes apart?!
Confused as what to do? Don't wanna go in and get sent home but it seems close together and already painful i thought they'd come on soft and grow in intensity