Can't find an OB i fit with and im 30 weeks along

Okay guys. I love love love our family doc. He no longer does OB or delivers babies. Okay so I find one but didnt like the fit. We moved and I needed to find a different OB. Was recommended this one were woth now but she is so rude and we absolutely do not click at all, she calls me obeseat every apt. She says because of my obesity and age i need to be induced before 39 weeks. ( i just turned thirty and i weigh 264 at 5'9... ) I have 10 weeks till due date do I just grind and bear it and hope shes not available when I go into labor or do I try to find a different OB again!?

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What I did is found all the OB’s that worked at the location I wanted to go, screenshot all of their profiles on whatever website showed their credentials and intro, and put it all into Chat GPT which told me the best option. So far so good! 🤷‍♀️ i was going to go with a different OB before using Chat GPT but then it pulled info on that provider stating they had been reported to be rude or cold, and then told me this other OB would be a much better fit especially due to their education history.

I would 100% find a different OB. 10 weeks is more than enough time to establish care with someone else and you don't want to risk your current OB requiring an induction if it's not medically necessary. It's also SO important to have someone who you are comfortable with delivering your babies. If you have an OB that isn't supportive of you or your birth plan it can easily lead to a traumatic birth or emergency c-section.

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