So I was texting my boyfriend earlier and I explained to him how I was excited about us actually moving in together and he responded saying “why are you in such a good mood” i told him “because I’m excited to live with you wake up next to you” then he responded saying “you going to see the huzz” yall I kid you not I had no idea what the hell that meant apparently it means hoes like we’re in our early 20s why are you talking like that but after I found out what it meant I told him that it honestly ruined my mood because I was trying to have a cute moment with you he didn’t even acknowledged. I said that so I asked him if he was actually his age because of the way he’s acting he again didn’t acknowledge what i said so I sent him him a paragraph about how i felt and all he said was “sorry” then i said “I’m saying this because when you don’t acknowledge anything I try to tell you it makes me feel like you don’t care to understand or to hear what I’m telling you” all he said was ok so i asked him if he actually cared and he said “I do”
Him saying huzz isn’t the reason I’m annoyed it’s because when I tell him how he makes me feel like he doesn’t actually care what do you guys think
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Is he saying he's got hoes finding over and since you're living there you'll see them? That's what I got from it and that would be the absolute end for me ain't, but also the way he's acting and testing you on top of it? Ew. I think I'd break up with him but I definitely wouldn't be moving in with someone like that.

I think he was trying to be funny but obviously wasn’t the time lol annoying for sure

Okay, so if he does that often (the not responding, not really acknowledging your feelings, sending 1 or 2 word responses) then that’s an issue. I’m sure he was joking earlier, but if he responds that way to your feelings then it could cause other issues. Does he usually respond when you try to have a real conversation?