Daddy side

Assume you're not with the dad? Nothing, move on. If they don't want to show up and be there for your kids.. their problem

Continue to be their mother and makes sure I’m doing what I’m suppose to be doing for them. Let them be bitter plus I believe if you don’t like me you don’t like my kids. And they already disclaimed them so just keep it that way. Don’t allow them to trick you until begging for them to be around. They will try to come back and stand your ground so you won’t have anymore headaches. If they can’t be good with you then they don’t need to be around your children.