am i wrong for not wanting anymore kids ?

my son is 3 & i feel complete . he’s already potty trained & i feel like it’s a milestone closer to “ a little more freedom “ i’ve finally gained some confidence & mental stability after having my son . falling in love with myself , going to the gym for 2yrs now & finally seeing the light at the end of the tunnel . but my husband , family & in laws put so much pressure to have more kids but after a very scary experience with giving birth/postpartum i’m scared to go through that & i know every pregnancy is different but im just scared of the thought it can possibly happen again… im 26 almost 27 & i feel like there’s a timeline pressure if I do have another kid i dont want to be 30 with a newborn… not that it’s bad but i just don’t see that for myself & also i feel guilty not giving my son a sibling because when all is said & done he wont have anyone & that’s what scares me… he has cousins on my side & around his age but no cousins on his dads side…. im so conflicted… any advice ?

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Child care cost UK

4 days a week, 1 child is around £1500.

With 30 hours government assistance for working parents. We pay £850.

I couldn't figure out why for the past year I have felt broke all the time.

It just hit me today, it's these darn nursery fees.

If you work a 9 to 5 and send your kid to nursery in the UK are your feed similar or am I over paying?

It's crazy to think you go to work, to pay for someone to look after your child.

Porridge for a 7month old

Can I give this porridge to my 7 month old?? Or do I need to keep giving ‘baby porridge’ ?
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Am i being unreasonable?

So, my little girl is almost 16 months old. I split up from her dad when she was around 4 months old. He has been having her overnight at his parents every weekend but i have told him that i would occasionally like to have her on the weekends so i can do enjoyable things with her? He doesnt seem to do much with her apart from going to the local park and staying in the house so i just feel a but bad about her missing out on fun things?
Whenever i do tell him that id like to have her on a certain weekend, he tends to start an argument and threaten me with mediation sessions?
However i feel like allowing my 1 year old to stay away from me every weekend is generous of me? Its only that perhaps once a month id like to have her om a weekend day? He only wants to have her both saturday and sunday as he lives an hour away and thinks its too much driving just to spend one day with her?
Am i being unreasonable for occasionally wanting to have my daughter on a weekend?

Is he trying to stop me from going out /is this normal

So I go out probably once or r twice a month not every month. Now at first my partner (boyfriend ) would say he doesn’t want me leaving to go out after 11pm which was crazy because 30+ chances are they usually start late. Then he says he doesn’t want me out past 2 am then he says the door will be locked 5am (usually back by then so that’s ridiculous) it just sounds like he doesn’t want me to go out

Husband work travel

Husband needs to travel for work (one night) when the baby is 3.5 weeks old. He is the bread winner but I also feel 3 weeks PP is early?

I swear Imma lose some brain cells

So I just left my 36 week appointment and I updated my sons father. After I told him how the appointment went, he gone say we need to talk.
I told him I can’t do it next week because I have college classes next week and work so I’ll be busy. He proceeded to ask me how I’m going to do this when I’m about to have our son.
I told him just because I’m having our son doesn’t mean I’m not going to stop going to school. He then proceeded to say how’s he going to have our son but how am I going to manage all this.
I said that it’s not going to be just him watching him and it’s going to be my mom or one of my sisters too and he then said no it’s going to be just him so I doubled down and said no it’s going to be my mom or my sisters as well. I’m guessing I pissed him off because he looked at it and didn’t respond