12 year relationship down the drain
I am so drained by giving him chances. Found condoms in my car this past Easter , perfume down to his balls recently, on our anniversary would rather play pool than walk out realize it is time to leave. I said “ you might need some water splashed on you to realize that if you don’t leave now our relationship is over” and he hasn’t moved a muscle… I am outside the bar. Not the best to post here but better than make worse decisions. My instinct is to go inside over and over again. That is my problem.
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I was always taught that “we teach people how to treat us” by what we will and will not allow. If you keep going inside; he’s gonna keep doing the exact same behavior over and over again. You allow it; so why wouldn’t he think it was ok. Just an observation. I’m sorry this is where you are, and I hope he gets his head back to where it belongs
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