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Autism Parent Support Group

School long post sorry

TW involves student having marks TW
Guys I’m not sure how to handle the school the right way when it comes to this. My son, who is nonverbal,started second grade on Wednesday. His grandma picked him and his sister up for me and when I got home from work around 7 it was time for showers. Well in giving my son his shower I noticed 2 red marks on his arms. One on each arm. Almost like somebody grabbed too hard or scraped him with something? I’m not sure. Anyways I took pictures and videos because I’m like he didn’t have this yesterday (Tuesday before school started) Thursday he comes home no new marks. Friday he’s home I unfortunately did not check him for marks just because I was exhausted from the day and we all went to bed early no showers lol and then Saturday I notice he has another one the exact same pattern as the ones on his arms that he had Wednesday but it’s only one spot on his back kinda where the ribs and stuff are. Saturday I noticed it cuz when he’s at home all day he will walk around with his shirt off. And I couldn’t find my phone atm to take pictures. I took them today (Sunday) and a video but in the video i said I noticed them yesterday but didn’t check him Friday. He’s very energetic and loves jumping off things but he’s never had these marks this consistent. And I’ve had issues with this school communication wise, they hardly tell me anything at all going on with him. I’ll message them in the morning and won’t get a response till AFTER they’re at home from school. And they have I believe 2 new aids? But yea I really want to pull him from school but I can’t find the right one to transfer him to just yet and I do have to work full time since it’s only me and my 2 kids now (got divorced, no child support only cuz they weren’t his kids and he never adopted them when we got married)