So my son father want me to move all the way to Ohio 8 hours away and leave my apartment with me him and our 2 year old and move in with his sister that got a one bedroom apartment with no family until we find our own place he keep complaining about living in Maryland saying I been here my whole life and we need to go to another state but I keep telling him no because he controls me and hate when I hang out with friends and family yesterday he got mad because I got up for work earlier because I’m always late to work and said I was with another man and set an alarm today for me to get up at 5 saying if I can get up early for another man he going to start waking me up early I came home from work yesterday he restrained me down and my 2 year old was watching and crying I keep saying I’m going to call the police he keep saying he don’t care I told him he need to go Ohio by hisself but act like he can’t go if me and my son don’t go he’s also very disrespectful with no job I been paying bills by myself he haven’t found a job since we moved to Maryland in January and keep saying it’s the area everytime I leave out he’s checking the air tag to see where I’m at that he got on my car to keep watching where I go and keep calling
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Sorry you are having to go through this.
But this is not a healthy relationship to be in. Especially as your kid is experiencing what's going on.
The last thing you want is for this to form part of him or become a trauma for him.

No please don’t go ;( tell him to go alone and you get an exit plan and leave