Why do you look at the messages and don't answer
***!direct message
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Do you mean when somebody messages you or in one of these groups asks a question? A lot of the time I don’t care, or don’t have an opinion.

You mean when someone messages you?
No not the groups I mean direct message

Alot of people don't have notifications turned on

Yes. I read and don’t answer direct messages because I’m usually not interested. They’re always generic questions that feel blah and it feels almost like a dating site 😬 it’s also usually from someone who doesn’t live anywhere near me. I’m not interested in a pen pal

I may not see the notifications but just ask that person the direct question and see what they say.

And also responding to someone incognito, don’t feel comfortable