Ectopic

So I’m here to vent.

Ectopic pregnancies have ruined my fertility. No one understands what I’m going through no one cares.

I’m pissed off.

I don’t know anyone that’s had an ectopic pregnancy.

Women get help for miscarriages you don’t get any help for ectopic pregnancies.

Just pissed off.

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What kind of help are you wanting?!

Like support groups?!

I’m sorry you’re going through that. I’ve had 3 ectopic pregnancies and the only person in my family ever to. I’m here if you need to talk as I understand exactly what you’re going through.

I'm so sorry for you. There's virtually no support or help for any woman's issue. My miscarriage was at 10.5 weeks and the baby had stopped growing at 6-ish and literally no one cared, no aftercare, no support. Just expected to get on with it, and the question I was asked "was it a planned pregnancy" how is that even a question I've had my midwife and got my scan booked, even if it was a surprise how dare you!
There's no support under 16w

I'm sorry people are crap and don't know what to say. Woman's health is wildly underfunded.

I'm sorry you're going through this alone.

Although different, I feel like it's still the same pain.

I'm just sorry 😔

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