Relationship after baby
My partner has never taken responsibility in an argument before or really apologised it’s always sorry but you made me etc sorry but it was your fault because xyz
Now the arguments have went next level last time he called me names such as fat pig/dog we overcame that, but again he has proceeded to do the same he’s called me pig, fat, I weigh as much as a man, wouldn’t be able to find someone like this but he can. He also said he should have cheated on me whilst he had the chance. He went on to throw stuff at me and I threw something back which means I started it. He thinks it’s acceptable to push me and me not retaliate if I do, it makes it my fault.
I never name called him first but after he called me them names I did call him names back and after he pushed me I did retaliate.
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I honestly can’t believe I’ve had a baby with someone like this and believe this is the most dangerous type of person.
He has already tried to twist it onto me and call me the unstable one.
He has always had anger issues like over small things that don’t matter and he’s eyes go really big.
I have a mortgage with him and baby, not sure how or what todo
LEAVE. Omg that’s horrible. I don’t normally make a habit of telling people to leave their spouses online but that behaviour is unacceptable. You shouldn’t have to go through any of that. Can you go to a friend’s or family with your baby? A shelter? Do you have any income? Are you married or common-law? There are options. It’s just hard. I’m so sorry. That sounds like a pathetic excuse for a man.
I 2nd everything Alana just said.. 💜💜
That is abuse. Leave. You and your child deserve so much more. Please seek help from a womens shelter if he gets violent again.
Get a plan in place and get ready to leave. You deserve safety as a bare minimum. He’s testing the waters to see what you will tolerate before escalating further
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