I want to know the good and the bad of being in a poly relationship with a added female to the mix from yalls experience of it please.
The rules that yall have or even rules you and you partner had before adding a 3rd or one's yall couldn't agree on and how if so yall resolved that issue. And even how yall came upon the 3rd and who decided on the 3rd stuffing that
I will add still not sure if the added female would I be involved with or not like that.
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There's 4 relationships in an ethical triad. You and them. Partner and them. You and partner. You and partner and them. If you aren't ready to see your partner take them out on dates solo of you id suggest reading books such as poly wise, polysecure, the anxious persons guide to nonmonogamy, the jealoysy work book, ethical slut, etc. You both have to be on board and ready and willing to wait years to find someone willing to be in a triad as triads are poly on hard mode