Need advice...am I overreacting?

Ive gotten into 2 nasty arguments with my husband in the last week. I'm 35 weeks pregnant and I'm exhausted. We don't have a car so I walk to drs appointments/ultrasound/nst. Its only a 15 min walk but I'm to the point its a lot and especially in the heat. Feet are cra,y swollen. I do all the cleaning. I've gotten everything ready for the arrival of the baby. I'm just to rhe point i need some TLC. I don't want to do the meals, the cooking the cleaning, the groceries. I told my husband I was hungry and asked if he would make me a burger. I could tell he didn't want to and he ended up bringing me food his mom made. He's been dealing with health.issues on and.off the past year and I always take care of him. He's finally feeling better and I just want some help and to be taken care of my last couple weeks being pregnant. I have gestational diabetes so I've had to go for nst/ultrasound twice a week. I had a scare the other day with high blood pressure and was sent for evaluation at labor and delivery. I'm really concerned he's not going to be of any help when the baby comes. Especially if he won't do anything now. I asked him when he's going to take his paternity leave b.c I need help. He said the day I'm supposed to be induced. I got upset bc im like you aren't helping while you're working so maybe you should take off a bit sooner. He complains about being tired. I'm fucking tired 😫. As soon as i brought it up he started yelling at me and speaking over me. He asked what I want him to do and as I tried to tell him he just starts screaming at me. Got up started saying he fucking hates me and I'm a piece of shit. How im lucky bc he put away the dishes yesterday and he put together a changing table. Im like you expect me to put the furniture together? I feel like he does the bare minimum. He always says, "I work" ...so I'm expected to do everything else?? I'm just so tired of it...i just wish he would care for me while I carry his baby and like I said, I dont feel itll get any better once baby comes. When his friends are around, they are more caring for me then he is. Am i expecting too much? Sorry for the rant...I moved countries to be.with him. I have no friends. The only people I know are his friends and family. Thanks for reading 😣💙 and any advice.

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Venting

Guys I’m so annoyed with my husband. I’ve noticed I’ve since the baby turned eight months. It seems like he’s just been less helpful. He’s been playing this game on his phone and I normally don’t care but when the baby is crying because they obviously are hungry/ want to sleep etc. and he’s just playing the game and I’m stuck in work(working from home) it’s so annoying like why do I have to do every single thing while I’m trying to work?
I’m stopping to feed the baby changed diapers while you’re on your phone gaming

I’ve talked to him about the game already saying that I think you’re kind of being distracted and you’re not you know, helping as much when it comes to the child so he stepped up and started washing bottles helping out a little more now. But he had to give me so much talk about all he just wants to relax. And this is his only time to relax and he doesn’t interrupt me when I am playing games. I haven’t played a game in months because we have this child and I’m just tired all this time I went straight from a C-section to working full-time within a week and beyond tired.

He helps out with a lot of other things, but oh my gosh I just want help while I’m working. We literally only have two more days till baby goes to school. Why? Why can’t you get off this game?

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How do you deal with it?

Is this fair

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I just he's begining to piss me off and out of 5 days he may come home straight after work twice but then will focus on cooking dinner he's a chef and loves cooking but when he's home he needs to take over or share the load

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