Husband/partners inputs

Try telling him that "wow. That's a great idea. Show me how to do it for a few days and if it's better than how I do it then I'll adjust" see how fast they'll never bring it up again.

😅😅 yap. Reverse that nonsense and save your sanity. He may do it once or twice in a huff but that'll be it. Because they don't wanna do it anyways. There's ways to be kind but such a person is not. It's stressful to you knowing you're doing the best you can but instead of helping it's constant criticism. So no more stress for you. You just take a breath and sweetly tell him to show you hiw he'd like it done for a week 😅😅 see how bub adjusts and you'll pick it up if it's worked out.