Lasting longer? Tmi
I love my man we been together 5 years now. We got 2 beautiful kids. But I just wish he would last longer in bed. I don’t wanna hurt his feelings or make him feel less like a man. My drive is just real high and when we do it is like 5 minutes and it’s up and yall know that ain’t enough time… no matter if I’m doing most of the work or he’s doing most of the work. What could I do to help?
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5 minutes it’s actually the average time amongst men. I find that I want it to last longer when there’s no foreplay or if I don’t finish. I couldn’t care less how long my husband goes for so long as he finishes the job on my end. I think porn has given people unrealistic expectations of how long penetrative sex lasts. If my husband is sober and it’s taking him more than 7-10 minutes I might start getting concerned that he’s pushing rope which again shouldn’t happen if he’s sober. Are you being satisfied in other ways? If not I think that’s where you should make adjustments. I really don’t see how a man can naturally make himself last longer without stopping and starting (my husband tries to do this sometimes when he simply wants to enjoy it longer) however sometimes that can lead to them ruining it for themselves and not finishing at all.
I mean, 5min is a decent time. Maybe do more hand/oral stuff if you want to feel more satisfied?
Do some mid play in between
To be quite honest everybody on here it’s literally more like a minute or two if he’s drinking… I just didn’t want it to sound that bad but now that I know the average is five minutes then maybe I just want him to last five minutes ha ha
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