My baby is just over 6 weeks and has had the 6 week check today.
When asked by the gp I said no concerns around feeding as she is breastfed and seems to be consistent, only some pain due to latching. Then she is also being given 200ml formula top up per day at most, as she struggled to gain weight post birth and trying to slowly wean off this.
But since her weight checks last week and at the end of her appointment today I am worried she is not gaining enough daily. The GP said no concerns as long as she follows the percentile line she is currently on. Am I being crazy for worrying that she isn’t gaining enough weight as it’s working out to be around 5g per day?
I am also just worried I’m not producing enough milk for her and keep having an internal battle thinking if I should end breastfeeding completely
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As the doctor says, as long as she follows her curve then she’s fine. Sounds like you’re doing a great job x

My baby is now 7 months. I obsessed over her weight for the first 6 months. It consumed me for a very long time. I compared her to the bigger babies constantly. I’ve now come to realise, some babies are just smaller and don’t gain as much as others. As long as she’s following her centile line, your baby is fine. Weigh her weekly for the next month if you’re worried. If your baby is gaining slowly, following their line, having 6+ wet nappies daily, seems happy and meeting milestones, please do not worry.

Weight gain isn’t linear. My boy dropped steadily from 40th centile at birth to 6th centile in the first 2 months (he never lost weight just gained very slowly) the health visitors and doctors weren’t concerned at all but I found it stressful. However he then had a growth spurt around 3 months and then slowly climbed back up the centile eventually sitting around the 30th. As long as baby is having wet nappies and isn’t losing weight I wouldn’t be too concerned.

If you’re having pain latching I’d investigate this as slow weight gain and pain can be indicative of tongue tie.
How often is she pooing? x

Do not end breastfeeding 🙏
Agree w , lip or tongue tie could explain the pain latching.
But you're doing a great job, trying to wean off formula, too, it would be a shame to stop breastfeeding just bc you're stressing. Pump whenever you give formula and soon you'll be able to wean off.
Count diapers, does she have enough diapers ? Is she overall happy?
I went through similar, dm me if you want more details or w any questions, I'll be happy to help
My baby girl is 13 days old today and i am worried about the cries she has been showing me since Sunday. She would burst out crying for a short period and scrunch her self up showing what looks like pain in her stomach. Shes also crying when she passes wind and at the end of her feeds. I am doing a combination of formula and breastmilk, i am using infacol as it could be colic, massaging her daily and she cries when i do that, i just dont know what to do. I took her A&E yesterday and they said she is fine but im not convinced as she’s really upset and she’s not normally like this. Any advice please.

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My LO is 13 months old. He understands EVERYTHING. I say get the ball bring it to me he does. I ask him to show me the planes he points. He waves he claps. Everytime I speak to him he responds with ‘ooohh’
He babbles dadada wawawawa bababa and constantly makes noises. Like oooohh ahhhh uhhhh but no proper real word yet. Should I be worried?
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We went to explore pushchairs at mamas and papas and they really seem to encourage you to buy the ocarro package which is 12kg + and bulky once folded. Are these realistic to use post 6 months or is it better to go with something like Joolz/Nuna which are most compact but less sturdy I guess.

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Hello
Just looking for some advice on sundown scaries.
Our little girl is 11 days old today and I’m struggling with anxiety in the evenings.
She starts stirring and getting a bit grizzly in the evenings, on and off crying, wont be put down, just restless and cluster feeding. I find it quite overwhelming.
I feel pretty good in the day, but from 4pm I just feel riddled with anxiety.
I try to go to bed around 9pm if she’s settled & get a couple hours in before my partner brings her up around 11pm. Then my night shift starts.
I try to let my partner sleep through as we’re trying to establish a bit of a routine before he goes back to work next week.
Any advice on sundown scaries? How long did it last for you?
TIA
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What age did you leave your breastfed baby away from you? My baby won’t take a bottle. I’m scared to go to the shop without him just incase.
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My little boy started nursery last week for 2 days.
Ever since he has been so clingy, he was never like this before.
He rejects his Dad and only wants to be held by me. He just arches his back and screams if it’s anyone else.
I have to be within touching distance at all times or it’s the end of the world.
He used to be so independent & didn’t mind me not being there?
Is he just adjusting? Is he scared? I just feel so bad but also so touched out!!
Has anyone had this happen to them?

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