Stopping baby dads CONTACT WITH BABY
Starting today i’m completely ignoring my child’s dad. I’ve been advised to do this by social workers and i fit all the criteria to. i’m TERRIFIED, he’s emotionally abusive, a very angry man, he knows where we live and has a very short fuse. He’s got lots of domestic abuse and a sex with minor caseagainst him aswell. Im scared he’s going to show up to my house.. Has any been through similar?? in UK (England)
please any advice or good outcomes of this would be appreciated
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I haven’t been through this but I can advise you to look into getting a non molestation order. Try to find a solicitor who will give you 30 mins for free to get some advice. Stay strong xx
feel free to message me! i won’t go into too much detail on here but i was in this situation in november, basically the same! Clare’s Law DV stuff with others, been in prison for violence, history of DV in our relationship and then he physically attacked me so I left. I was also told by social workers that he shouldn’t be allowed to see my baby and also advised that if i did let him, that my case would be reopened as he’s the reason they were involved at all nothing to do with me. in my experience he’s the stereotypical abusive man, big ego and can attack and abuse women and people smaller than him but is terrified of real consequences. due to the situation which lead to me leaving, he knew the police would be involved and disappeared. contact DV organisations and try to get a nonmolestation order. i know it isn’t easy, but id recommend moving if at all possible! i did and he still is unaware of where me and my daughter live and it’s helped my anxiety lots! x
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