Has anyone flown with 3 little kids before, one being a baby. By yourself, like no partner or friend with you to help lol.

All my kids have flown multiple times, but it’s always been me taking only one of them if I go without my husband or us as a whole family. I booked a trip though where I’m going to have to do it alone and I’m kinda terrified 😂😭 idk if I can do it I already HATE airports and flying and the whole damn experience

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I've thought about doing this because I can use a program through an autism advocacy group that will help us through the airport and we get to go through a special security line and they take us on a golf cart to our gate. Otherwise I would not.

With two yes and one day it’ll be three. Tbh I’ve only had one flight where I was over it pretty early and that was a delayed flight in a crappy airport so they were bored.

Family lanes for security, your hand luggage is just snacks and toys, headphones for the eldest to watch entertainment or listen to stuff like a Yoto, baby sling. I also always board first so I can bag overhead space, settle everyone in with stuff, get the baby belt ready, use the loos etc.

How long is the flight? Maybe schedule around nap or take an overnight flight? I’ve only done it with two so far every time has been on my own to go back and visit family. I like when I did either leaving at 7am or leaving at midnight so they slept on the flight.

Hell no. Traveling with 1 little child alone was hard enough for me. I struggled with bags and keeping toddler close. There's no way i'd ever sign up to take three little ones i think I would have too many panic attacks & i just couldnt handle it.

Def book the airline support/ assistance which is usually free

I have but with two kids one being a baby and it was definitely harder than with help but doable

You can call 72 hours before your flight and set up assistance through TSA cares https://www.tsa.gov/travel/tsa-cares

Three kids, 7 yrs, 5yrs and 3 months. It was a surprisingly good trip. It was only a 1.5 hr flight, the waiting around was the hardest to keep big kids entertained but they managed well enough together

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