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September 2023 Babies 🇬🇧

Daddies girl

Hi everyone. I’m looking at some advice (or to see if this behaviour is normal or not). my little girl (3) has always been a daddies girl. She adores her daddy so much. When it’s just me and her, she loves me, gives me attention etc (not overly cuddley but still loving), however when her daddie is home I don’t get a look in. She’s all “daddy, daddy, daddy” constantly. I can’t do anything for her when daddy is home. When she goes to bed..she rarely gives me a kiss or cuddle but she will happily cuddle daddy. When she wakes up the first thing she asks for is daddy…when she’s crying (if we are both there) she wants her daddy. When she wakes up, if her daddy is there…she will tell me to stay in bed and she will go and play with daddy. She tells me”I don’t want you, i want daddy” or “your not my best friend..daddy is”. I just feel like a shjt mum and I’ve failed somehow. I know I’m a good mum, I give her sooo much attention, take her out on days out etc but I’m not sure what else I can do. Just feel embrassed that she always want him when we are both there. Her daddy is the best day in the world and I’m happy they have a lovely relationship..:just feeel that I’m missing out.