Tips on de escalating tantrums and encouraging respect and patience ?? (17 month old )
I’m in the trenches and up for suggestions 😅 ( nothing that includes physical discipline or screaming ) I also know this is part developmental but I’m really wanting to foster calm , confidence and respect in my child to feel secure growing up
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This is what i did- absolute calm. I sat with her, i didn't leave i didnt say much. I mostly waited until she calmed down. Some days it took 20 minutes. But she learned! It took so much patience. Good luck mama!
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