40 weeks 2 days no signs of Labour

My doctor says I’m not dilated and my cervix is still high also baby was high on ultrasound and I am defeated I’ve had been doing Labour workouts curb walking and me and bf tried sexy time :,) i feel like I’m going to go over a week and I really don’t want to also they won’t induce me unless medically necessary because it increases my risk for a c section

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I just want it to be my time already

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I feel you hun. That was me. I finally delivered at 41 + 4.🫠 The miles circuit is definitely a good thing to do at least once a day. But really once things do start happening ( mucous plug, water breaking) it will kind of just go steady from there. As hard as it is, being patient with your baby and body, relaxing as much as you can while still working your pelvis in your spare time, it will all work out for a beautiful delivery. Just trust and stay positive 🫶🏽

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Do more sexy time the semen eats away at the cervix. Pineapple juice, bouncing, walking, stretches.

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Yoga & bouncy balls

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Yes have more sexy time with ur bf & pump! I was barely a 1 last week, had sexy time and I was pumping colostrum. 3 days later I woke up to contractions and was dilated to a 7 when I went to the hospital!

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