Custody
My daughter dad is in deportation on the verge of being thrown out. He was very abusive towards me. Now wanting sympathy and wants me to process him to get him to stay. Hes been in a rush to find someone else. Im done and moving forward he can't handle it. I was a dummy for a short time not a long time I won't be. Filing divorce this week. Wish me luck he doesnt drag it out. Hes working illegally his employer doesn't know he doesn't have proper work authorization to work. He told them he was a citizen. I know for sure im being honest with the judge. He still wants to be controlling i asked to send money so I can get her stuff he said he has to see us in person. Hes not safe at all very abusive. How would you go about it thanks.
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if he’s in process of getting deported what are you asking for help for exactly just so i know how or what to say?
Yes; I was gonna ask the same; what advice are you seeking exactly?! You said he’s been abusive and controlling .. that’s enough said. He definitely does not deserve anymore of your time. I get you guys have a child together; but that does not mean you need to do anything for him. He didn’t treat you guys right while together, and now is only wanting to play “nice” bc he’s at a low and is desperate. SMH. Personally, I wouldn’t lift a finger for anything regarding him. He can continue communication with his child and that is it! Long as he can be civil and not try to poison your child’s head.
No further contact with him!!
I read as she’s asked for money for things for her daughter and he won’t give it unless he sees them in person.
I absolutely would not be going! I’d find the money elsewhere as if he’s deported is he still going to support you financially?
How will you support yourself financially if he’s deported?
That’s what you need to ask yourself mama, you’ve got this! ❤️ xx
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