Changing name

After 8 months, I feel like this is not her name. I think about it every day and just gives me anxiety to think I picked the wrong one. I don’t dislike the name , it s just been a consistent tought over the past 8 months. My husband thinks I am crazy for wanting to change it
How do I convince him

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Wet underwear - what could it be?

Hiya!

I am pregnant with my first so these might just be stupid questions but I’d feel better just asking especially when there are women on here more experienced than me so please bare with me 😅

I am 34+1 weeks pregnant. When I went to pee I noticed that my underwear is slightly wet. Can’t tell the colour too well as the underwear is brown but to me it appears that it’s colourless and completely odourless. For a second I thought I might’ve leaked a little by not making it on the toilet on time as it happened before but it doesn’t smell like urine. No pain/contractions either just the wet underwear. Does anyone know what it might be? Should I be freaking out as I am only 34 weeks.

I have uploaded a photo just so it’s clearer and hope that that’s alright too 😅

8 weeks tomorrow ♥️

My names willow-eve

Let's see everyone's gorgeous babies !
Were does the time go'

Induction

I’m 38+2 had a stretch and sweep last night and was 1-2 cm dilated… had period cramps and back pain ever since but nothing else other than feeling unwell, like cold/flu symptoms and a headache! Being induced tomorrow if labour doesn’t progress, any tips to kickstart🤞🤞

Breech baby

I’m over 37 weeks now and baby girl is still breech so I’m on the waiting list for c-section. My first baby was a completely unmediated spontaneous vaginal birth so I can’t help but feel sad I won’t have that same birthing experience this time round. C-section obviously has the lowest risks for baby that’s why I’ve opted that way but any advise or what to expect would be much appreciated also anything different I may need to pack 🙌🏼🫶🏼 pic of bby girl sucking get toes hehe

Planned C-section turned emergency — a positive birth experience for nervous mummies 💕

Hi everyone! I wanted to come on and share my birth/labour experience because I know how reassuring it can be to hear positive stories, especially if you’re feeling nervous or anxious about birth. 💕

My little boy Michael was due in the middle of October, but decided to make an early appearance on September 24th 🥹🩵

Due to a lot of complications and anxiety around labour, our midwife recommended a planned C-section. This still scared me, but given the circumstances, having a planned C-section felt more predictable and helped me feel like I could prepare for the experience and minimise some of the unknowns.

However… just ONE day after we got our surgery date, Michael decided to break my waters, so we ended up being rushed into hospital for an emergency C-section — three weeks early! 🥴

When we arrived at the hospital, there wasn’t much waiting around. The team were absolutely amazing and so kind. They did the standard observations, checked my cervix and made sure everything was moving in the right direction.

We were then seen by a doctor who talked us through the procedure, before members of the surgical team introduced themselves and went through all the pre-op information with us. 💕

The scariest part for me was walking into the operating room. It was so surreal and scary, but at the same time there was this mixture of anxiety and excitement because I knew that within an hour, I was going to meet my baby. 🥹

Once in the room, they repeated my observations and administered the spinal. This was something I had been really scared about, but honestly, it was so smooth!

They sprayed cold liquid all over my back and gave me the numbing injections, which to me felt no different to having blood taken or getting an injection at the dentist. After that, I didn’t even feel the spinal going in. The most painful part was probably taking the sticky tape off my back afterwards! 😂😂

They quickly laid me down and continued doing observations while getting everything ready for surgery. They did lots of checks to make sure I couldn’t feel any pain before starting, which made me feel really comfortable and reassured.

I could feel some pressure — I assumed this was the catheter being put in — and then the next thing I knew, I heard my baby boy crying! 🥹🩵

I genuinely had no idea they had even started. It was absolutely amazing.

We played music in the operating room and we knew everyone by name, which made everything feel so much calmer. 🥹 After Michael was cleaned up, they gave him to my husband and we were just in this little bubble together. The last part of the surgery honestly felt like five minutes — it was over so quickly that you could barely process what had just happened! 😂

During the procedure, you feel pressure rather than pain. For me, it felt a bit like someone was doing the washing up inside my stomach 😂. The pressure became much more intense when Michael was being delivered and when the placenta was removed. For me, this felt like someone was leaning heavily on my chest.

I also suddenly had a really sharp headache and felt nauseous, but as soon as everything was out, I felt this instant relief. It was honestly the most amazing and insane thing I’ve ever experienced. 🥹

At the end, I was sick because of the medication, but overall the whole experience was just so surreal. They then took me into recovery, where everyone was so kind and reassuring. I was there for around 3–4 hours before being moved onto the ward.

And honestly, my recovery has been much better than I expected! I was up and walking later that same day. I’ve had quite a bit of pain on one side of my incision, but as long as I stay on top of my pain relief, it has been nothing like I imagined it would be.

And being in that newborn baby bubble really does help keep you going. 🥹🥹

I know everyone’s birth and recovery will be completely different, and I’m definitely not saying a C-section is easy — but as someone who was really nervous and scared about giving birth, I wanted to share a positive experience because I know I would have found this reassuring to read beforehand. 💕

If you’re nervous about your planned or emergency C-section, just know that you can absolutely get through it. The whole experience can feel so overwhelming beforehand, but once you’re there, the team guide you through every single step. And before you know it, you’re meeting your baby. 🥹🩵

Sending lots of love to all the expecting mummies! 💕

Birth tips

Does anyone have any birthing tips or must haves for postpartum or hospital bag?
I have limited birthing classes where i am and the next one isn’t until the day before babys due date in November