Body embarrassment 😭

I am super conscious and embarrassed by my belly shape.

I'm 33+2 weeks with twins, and I'm fine with my actual bump which is the high bit, and actually considered small for twins, but I have the biggest 'pouch' or 'overhang' belly underneath.

For context, I was a size 8 before pregnancy, but have previously been upto an 18-20 at my worst, so my body is a massive insecurity for me. My legs and bum are also ugly to me. All I can think about is how im missing out not having a maternity shoot, and how the hell I'm going to loose it afterwards.

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There’s nothing wrong with you 💖 a belly band can help with bump shape if you’re feeling self conscious though. You’re one day ahead of me :)

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Mama I’m so sorry that our world lies to you about attractiveness. Lies to you, the woman creating two humans from scratch INSIDE your body, growing and nourishing them 24 hours a day, while also living your day to day life. Honestly any quality photographer can get amazing maternity photos of you, don’t pass that up!

I was also insecure about my pregnancy body and never did maternity photos, but looked back now nearly 15 years later and saw the selfies were more than beautiful and regretted not doing a formal photo shoot.

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Body embarrassment 😭

I am super conscious and embarrassed by my belly shape.

I'm 33+2 weeks with twins, and I'm fine with my actual bump which is the high bit, and actually considered small for twins, but I have the biggest 'pouch' or 'overhang' belly underneath.

For context, I was a size 8 before pregnancy, but have previously been upto an 18-20 at my worst, so my body is a massive insecurity for me. My legs and bum are also ugly to me. All I can think about is how im missing out not having a maternity shoot, and how the hell I'm going to loose it afterwards.

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