Feeling all the feels

Oct 19th would have been the due date for the baby I miscarried at the beginning of the year. Also currently in the 2 week wait of this TTC cycle. Feeling sad, angry and overwhelmed. There would be something so beautiful about getting a positive this month but I can’t help but feel guilty and scared. Trying to remain positive and focus on our son but the background noise is relentless

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in our community

Limited help from village

Any mamas here who have very little help from their village and have one or more children? How do you cope?

My family lives abroad and they are so willing to help, but unfortunately due to the distance and time apart, they can't help us much and can only do so when they visit us or if we go and visit them. My in laws live about 40 mins drive but even when we meet, they don't really help and it's more like social visits. I wished it was swapped around that my parents were the ones who were closer to us so they could help us time and time again. We thought of having a second one before, but I really don't know how we can cope given the very limited support we have currently.

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Frozen embryo transfer in February

Is anyone planning to do a frozen embryo transfer in February.
We’ve just got our consultant appointment through for November then hopefully we’ll be starting treatment on my January cycle.

Looking for people in the same boat that I can talk to as we are keeping it a secret from family.

Thank you

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TTC

Any November 2024 mummas TTC? we’re on cycle 3 of ttc baby number 2, with no luck yet! we spontaneously conceived our first. I’m feeling deflated as i really want my little girl to have a sibling!

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Anyone ever managed to get a positive test after 11DPO?

I have ALL the pregnancy symptoms and my period is now late
Just wondering had anyone ever got a positive after 11DPO or even 12? No idea what’s going on, maybe I’m gonna have a bad heavy period instead? 😫

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Bit worried? Someone help

So I’m tracking my line progression as I found out on the 8th I’m pregnant. I’m around 5 weeks at this point.

I’ve been taking 2 kids of test to track like progression.

This was from last night as I wanted to see how dark a line was in an evening.

Then the strips, the middle one was yesterday morning and the bottom was was this morning - however, I feel like on my other tests to track, my test is lighter this morning, than it was 48 hours ago….. and lighter than the one I took last night.

Should I be worried?

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Faint line or evap line?

I tested 2 days ago and got a negative. Retested this morning and thought it was another negative. I didn’t look at it for the full time, just a minute or so. I looked a little later and think I can see a faint line but could it be evaporation line? Period is 5 days late. Please help.

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