Hi everyone
My baby girl is 4 weeks old today. She is BF and bottles of pumped milk. She has about 90ml per feed every 3ish hours.
She has started being a bit sick during or after feeds (can be up to an hour or more after feeds). I pace feed, wind and burp during the feed, keep her upright for 30 mins after etc.
When she lies flat on her back (and mainly at night), she constantly clears her throat which is quite wet sounding, sounds congested in her nose, grunts, groans and strains.
Could it be a bit of reflux? Heartburn? Something else? Normal baby behaviour haha?
She is otherwise a very chilled and happy baby, and the sick/spit up doesn’t seem to necessarily bother her.
Thanks!
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My boy used to make a lot of noise sleeping on his back and his breathing was really loud too, he has laryngomalacia (floppy larynx)

A little bit of spit up is normal, especially if it doesnt bother her
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