IUI or IVF?

Hi all my husband and i are unexplained and have been ttc for 4 years, is it worth trying IUI or is my best bet IVF?

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I think you can try IUI you might get lucky. Before proceeding to IVF. I did IUI 4 times and it didn’t work for me. Now we’ve decided to go for IVF. But I know couples that got lucky with IUI.

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I’m 35, and started this process a year ago really looking to start with an IUI, thinking I was on the young-ish spectrum. It was our doctor who convinced us to go straight to IVF.

We got two healthy embryos out of the process, and are currently trying a natural cycle with Ovidrel (fingers crossed!) with the plan of doing an IUI in Jan if this cycle is unsuccessful.

Freezing our embryos as early as possible was our doctor’s strategy for taking the pressure off. FET planned for February.

Good luck!

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It all depends on your case, We were ttc for 2 years with no success, and we decided to go straight into IVF, unfortunately we failed for 2 cycles! What was weird is when we sat with our doctor he said that the next trial would be an IUI, he doesn’t want to take out the eggs of their natural environment, cause maybe it will be better in my case. I still don’t know what will happen really and it’s all been too confusing but we learn a lot about our bodies with every trial. Wishing you the best of luck in your decision.

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Hey, I’ve also been ttc for over 4 yrs and as the same as you were are unexplained. I was 32 when we start iui on the nhs (now 34) and went through it for a year, having a total of 6 (3 had to be postponed) we are now going to shortly start our round of ivf. We seen it as trying to give us every opportunity to conceive as naturally as possible. The whole process with iui was mentally draining (the drugs were effected my badly) but I did learn a lot about my body and what maybe going on. I believe it may have better prepared me for ivf. The reason we had so many cancelled was I had issues with my lining and 1 case I had somehow naturally ovulated. I think I has to be your decision together on how you move forward. It’s a tough road whatever you do, but you need to think what’s right for you at this moment. I hope this helps and if you would like to chat I’m here.

Good luck xxx

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I’m looking at ivf next year. 3 pregnancies but all loses. My partner has children so can’t be nhs funded

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I lightly spotted almost 5 days ago, which is not common for me before my period.
My period was supposed to come today. I should have tested in the morning but its 5:30pm.
Is there a second line??

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Anyone have this happen before?

We were not trying to conceive, used protection and had sex on week 2 of my cycle (accidentally on my peak ovulation day). Week 3 we had Flu A. Week 4 my period did not come (it’s very regular). I tested and it was negative (2 different brands).
What should have been week 2 of my next cycle (now 6 weeks post last period), I had light red/ pink spotting for one day when I wiped. The following week, I tested again, still negative, but this time almost all the dye was in the negative space, which I’ve never seen happen before. The area where it shows one horizontal line for negative and a plus sign for positive, the horizontal line was super faded at the 3 minute mark, and the negative vertical line in the next window was VERY dark. Now I’m on week 8 of all this, period did not show up yesterday. Nothing in my life has changed (no additional stress, no other illness, no changes in diet or exercise, etc).

Has anyone gone through this and NOT been pregnant? I’m super nervous as we thought we were done having kids.

PS. I know I should go get a blood test, does anyone know if urgent care will do that? I’m past being convinced by a pee test.

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Is it normal to test positive still? (Wouldn't usually do one)

Not the best pic and clearer in person. Is this normal? I've not had any sex since having my LO but I've had strong cravings, sense of smell is strong and my hair still hasnt started to fall out. Im 7 weeks pp so 🤷‍♀️ I wouldnt normally bother testing but with those symptoms that I never really have its like whats going on. Cravings for something very specific too and can only get from KFC now 😩 so its annoying

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Can baby mamas be friends?

My son has an older brother from his biodad. Biodad has never had contact with my son. One thing lead to another though and the other child's mother and I got in contact and are planning a meeting for the boys. Biodad has no idea any of this has happened. Biodad also hasnt had contact with the other child in about 2 years. Just thoughts, opinions, anyone been through something similar?
Edit-Thank you all! Have definitely been feeling somewhat weird about it because we never met before but now know it can be a good thing definitely helps. I can't wait for them to meet. My son has been asking for a brother and I can now happily tell him he has one. That just happens to be 13. Im sorry for yall that fight/have issues with the other baby mamas. Sadly some women rather be stuck on the men, when the kid is the one who really matters. They're the ones that end up getting hurt and missing out.

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Ovulation test

Please please someone clarify if this test is positive. Im pretty sure it is but Im in disbelief at the minute I haven’t ovulated in 8 months. I feel like crying lol. When is the best time to have sex?

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Ovulation test

I know this group is for pregnancy test but just want to double check this ovulation test is positive. I haven’t had a positive ovulation test in months and months I think Im gonna cry. When is best to have sex after a positive ovulation test and how likely is it to get pregnant?

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