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Who cares?

Today I finally did it! I put on my swimsuit at the hotel we are staying and went swimming with my daughter & husband. 👙I’m not feeling confident in my suit - at all! I’m the heaviest I’ve ever been and just not where I want to be , physically, and I always worry about being too pale, but I DID IT!!! Who cares what people think? It was fun and my family was so happy I joined them! Us Mamas have got to be kinder to ourselves!! ! Don’t miss the fun! Get in the pool! 👊🏻 And after, I ate pasta & drank wine- so screw it! Life is too short! Lol 😂
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Sounds like an amazing day!! You two look very happy, and that is all that matters! Cheers Stacy!

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Thank you, Sarah! It was a lot of fun!

Love your attitude and sounded like you had an incredible day, beautiful happy photo xxx It’s creating those great memories

Living your best life mama!!! So proud of you! Absolutely doing the same! Cheers!

Go mama!!! 💖😆 xx

I found a higher waited swim bottom so it covers more of my problem areas. But I agree your kids don’t care what you look like

What a beautiful thing for your daughter to see! And good for you!!! You are amazing!

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

That’s the way mama 👍🏽

Yes im that way.After having my kids i gained some weight.And i get inbarressed easy i now wear a one piece swimsuit.

I've had trouble coping as well with my body. I started working out today and i hope I am able to build the confidence you built! Congrats!

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You can get there!! I’m not 20 anymore. I like food! I have an autoimmune disease and take a lot of steroids- so the bloat is real. But it felt good to suck it up for my family who loves me and wants me involved! You will get there & it will be way more fun not to give a sh#*!!!

Thank you so much! :)

That's sweet. Good for you!!

You look gorge! Just do you!

YES, you go girl! Happy and proud of you mama💕

You go mama!!!🙌💪

Love this. I can totally relate! You are beautifiul btw!!!

Amen sister! I'm actively trying to lose weight, I'm 50lbs heavier than I was pre baby 😒 but I'm trying to remember that my son doesn't care what I look like, he only cares that mommy will play with him. That mommy has fun with him. Thank you for the reminder, I needed it today

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Stacy you are so beautiful.. not just the outside but inside as well..That’s the spirit! You shouldn’t care what people think! I know it’s easy said then done! But that’s the truth! Life is too short to not enjoy it especially when u have a family that needs you to spend time with them and enjoy memories together .. always remind yourself that nobody is better then u!! Everyone is fighting their own battles probably even worse then u just remember that and you will be just fine!! Have a beautiful and bright active weekend with your family beautiful!

I always worry about looking too pale as I'm a natural red head. I've put on weight too 🙈. As I have got older I care a bit less but it's always embedded in my brain x

I look back on thinking I was heavy... 25 pounds ago haha

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I’ve done the same. So many times!

Love this story

Be kinder to ourselves! I like that

@Stacy Love this, wear the outfit, the bathing suit, eat the food, drink the wine. BE HAPPY that's all your family cares about. I'm 70 lbs heavier than I was pre baby and trying my hardest to get back before it's too late I get diabetes. I'm not confident in my weight but i wear the 2 piece bathing suits and the crop tops because i careless what someone else thinks of me. Way to go mama

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